It is like the second step in dating.When you both are from any metro city and the girl is open minded then its quite simple as you can ask her directly to come out with you for a coffee. But when you are asking it with a girl who is not as much open minded and also not much opened with you then you can't ask her directly to come out with you for a film etc or on a date.
Don't say that to that type girl that you are calling her on a date keep it like its just a mood freshing trip.When you ask her to come with you just for a coffee then just say that "i am going to drink coffee and i am alone so if you wish you can come with me" she will behave like she don't want to disturb you and will say no but then you should say"ok as you wish but if you will come with me i will feel better" that's are the killing words which will make her ready to come with you and when you talk with her in alone then there are better chances that she will take interest in you but its your work to make her interested in you.
You should not behave with her as she is a princess means don't behave soooo good because it makes her uncomfortable .Actually its quite simple just like suppose if any of your new friend behave sooooo good with you what will be the first thing will come in your mind?
I am sure it will be "why he is behaving like as does he wants something from me?"
Thats normal when you behave sooooo good with the girl then she also thinks same and that think make her attention to keep far from you so when you are out for first time or 2-3 times then also just behave with her like she is your common friend.
When is comes to ask her for a film first time or disk etc then you need to do one thing don't plan it just for you and her include some of your friend also in which there should be at least one woman which will make her feel secure and comfortable.
If you want to ask a girl to come with you for a film then just say "A good film is showing and me and some of my friends (Tell the some names of your friends include girls name also) are going to sea that film if you wish you can also come with us it will be nice and if you wish you can come with any of your friend too."
If possible then ask her this when any of your female friend who is going with you is also there that will be better.
If you will ask her to come alone for a film then she will be aware by thinking bad things.So keep it in mind when you next ask a girl to come with you.
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